I prefer building great bonds with my children. Recognizing their weakness is also a good idea. By this you can or you will be able to control them by giving them what they want. But its risky, why? Because it can make your children spoiled and become dependent on it.

agreed... every child is different.

 We must consider every individuals mental and emotional limitation in imposing disciplinarian acts. Disciplining a child need not require a punishment, it can be a form of private talk between the parent and the child. In this case, hatred towards feelings would be avoided.

Wow! Good for you, my parents sometimes do not understand my weaknesses and often misunderstood my feelings towards my likes. They don't even want to listen to me. Sometimes I even think that they're not my real parents.

I am with the individual differences , in disciplining a child it must be focus to his mistakes and don't copy the way your friend discipline to his child ... his discipline is effective to his child but it may not effective to your child.

That's great! I hope my mom will ready this. She hates me for not following everything she wants me to do. She decides for me all the time which is very exhausting for me.

When know know their weaknesses I suggest that we should help them with those weaknesses. Teach them things that will lessen those weaknesses.